you’ve likely tried to work and think your way through what’s happening.
you may be able to explain it well.
and still, something keeps returning.
in this work, we don’t rush past that.
if you stay with the work, you start to hear yourself differently—and life stops running only on what used to be automatic.
what you can’t yet hear keeps deciding for you.
change begins when something is finally heard and spoken.
what can be said loses the power to operate unchecked.
speaking it doesn’t make it disappear—but it stops running the show.
what this work asks of you
• a willingness to speak without rehearsing.
to risk saying something unpolished or unresolved.
• letting uncertainty last longer than you’d prefer.
not filling it immediately with explanation or reassurance.
• noticing the urge to manage what’s uncomfortable.
and choosing not to, at least for a moment.
• allowing what you say to matter.
to be curious about what can’t be fully anticipated or controlled.
• the ability to stay when there’s no clear payoff.
not because it feels good—but because leaving early would be familiar.
what not to expect
advice - if your problem could be solved by advice, you wouldn’t be here
quick fixes - our work is about creating lasting change, not short term relief
an agenda - we’ll have purpose and focus of treatment, but I do not lead each session
answers - this isn’t a place to get answers and move on.
life as usual - the aim isn’t to settle things so nothing has to change.